{"id":285,"date":"2010-09-07T18:44:54","date_gmt":"2010-09-08T01:44:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/?p=285"},"modified":"2010-09-07T18:44:54","modified_gmt":"2010-09-08T01:44:54","slug":"eye-contact","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/2010\/09\/07\/eye-contact\/","title":{"rendered":"Eye Contact"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s something shocking in <em>Song of Songs<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>I know, that&#8217;s kind of a commonplace these days. &#8220;<em>Song of Songs<\/em> says things you&#8217;d never believe were in the Bible.&#8221; For example, one of my favorite parts of scripture is Song 7:7-8, which I can&#8217;t link because then this blog would be NSFW.<\/p>\n<p>I understand: if you&#8217;ve heard enough spicy sermons out of <em>Song of Songs<\/em>, it might not be as shocking to you as it would have been otherwise. But wait.<\/p>\n<p>Because, traditionally, <em>Song of Songs<\/em> has been described as a picture of Christ&#8217;s love for his Church. Let&#8217;s suppose that&#8217;s true. It might also be a how-to manual for godly sex, as it certainly seems to be in places, but let&#8217;s just suppose that fifteen or seventeen centuries of interpretation isn&#8217;t hopelessly 100% wrong.<\/p>\n<p>Are you with me? &#8220;Are we tracking?&#8221; Okay. Then consider what we read in <a href=\"http:\/\/bible.cc\/songs\/6-5.htm\">Song of Songs 6:5<\/a>. The man says to the woman:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\nTurn away your eyes from me, for they overwhelm me \/<br \/>\nYour hair is like a flock of goats leaping down the slopes of Gilead.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure what the bit about goats and Gilead says about hair &#8212; something extremely flattering, I&#8217;m sure &#8212; but the rest is pretty clear. Anyone who&#8217;s been in love &#8212; or even infatuated &#8212; knows that feeling. It&#8217;s the &#8220;I want to ask you to the dance but I have to look at my feet when I do it&#8221; feeling. The &#8220;I really like you, or think I do, but I&#8217;m so overcome by the butterflies in my stomach I can&#8217;t actually look you in the eye to say so&#8221; feeling.<\/p>\n<p>But consider: this verse is the <em>man<\/em> speaking to the <em>woman<\/em>. That would make it Christ speaking to his Church. Can you imagine Jesus the same kind of feeling looking at us &#8212; at you and me and the rest of the church &#8212; that we&#8217;ve experienced in our relationships? The sweaty palms, the stomach doing flip-flops, the stealing-looks-then-looking-away-before-eyes-meet? Jesus? Nervous?<\/p>\n<p>How many of <em>us<\/em> look at Christ&#8217;s church the way he does? Wow.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There&#8217;s something shocking in Song of Songs. I know, that&#8217;s kind of a commonplace these days. &#8220;Song of Songs says things you&#8217;d never believe were in the Bible.&#8221; For example, one of my favorite parts of scripture is Song 7:7-8, which I can&#8217;t link because then this blog would be NSFW. I understand: if you&#8217;ve &hellip; <span class=\"more-link\"><a href=\"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/2010\/09\/07\/eye-contact\/\">Continue reading &raquo;<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[],"tags":[8,15,113,168,176,193,218,274],"class_list":["post-285","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","tag-bible","tag-church","tag-crush","tag-infatuation","tag-jesus","tag-love","tag-nervous","tag-song"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/285","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=285"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/285\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=285"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=285"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/messofpottage.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=285"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}